Should I decide to do this again... someone please slap me hard... just when you think that you are over all the paperwork - at least until you get the referral etc something comes along to throw a spanner into the works... we were told in the beginning that we would need to get the police clearances from each state my 'in-laws' (they live in the same house) that they lived in going back to 18 years old... ha!!! That would be 8 police clearances for 5 states... lovely!!! We had to redo their prints again... for the 2nd time... the 3rd time if they still don't take you need a clearance... this has been going on since the first lot of prints... anyway... the girls from Immitgration called me at 7.30am (who is that for service) to tell me to just do 5 years previous for Florida... ok... I can swing that... Mike can attest to the 'meltdown' that I had... I have just printed off the forms and will get them off tomorrow... I have until August to do that... I told one of the girls at Immigration that should she see any papers after this adoption on her table for another one... to tear them up... and slap my face really, really hard... she had a giggle... though I even got an apology phone call from them... someone had sent me a piece of paper and on the template of the letter forgot to mark off one of the boxes and it said I had to send all these different papers - which I know I didn't have to do the I800a... so meltdown number 2... I never got angry at the girls though... they have actually done nothing but bend backwards to help me...
I have had many opinions about the doll... but I thought that I would buy it for Shauna and will keep it at home - some kids love the doll, some kids don't... well, if Shauna throws it on the floor then I will know to lose the doll :) I have had the high chair for about 2 years... it was actually at an auction and a lady had tried to outbid me... there was NO WAY she was going to outbid me... 
This is the toy box that we picked up yesterday... it was made for us... we don't like that plastic stuff... this will be good enough to take to college :) We are going to write a little message for Shauna on the bottom and the date and then I am going to put a clear lacquer on it... one thing missing from it that we want to do is put one of those latches on that holds the lid open but we will be able to do that ourselves...
Other then this... not a great deal going on... just working as usual... nothing has changed there either...









16 pearls of wisdom:
big hugs sweetie all this really will seem like nothing when you hold her in your arms! I love the doll but keep anything home that you don't want to lose!
Sometimes it just feels never ending. Just heard that we have to do an addendum to our homestudy. GRRR!
It's all worth it in the end.
Ugh! All the hoops and red tape - you must be going insane! I'm so sorry.
Love the chest! So pretty!
Briana has the same doll and absolutely LOVES it. She calls it her "China baby" and she sleeps with it every night along with her "Pink Baby". Yes, she sleeps with two dolls at night!
Your time is coming and everything is looking amazing. I cannot wait to hear all the awesome stories.. I am thinking of you!
We have the same doll too, just got it a few months ago from a dear China AP friend. It is in O's tribe of dolls that regularly get fed and changed.
The paperwork is so horrible - sorry you are going through all this.
ok who made that toybox? i love it.hang in there friend
The only thing I can tell you is ... it's all worth it. Really really. That said, there is NO way I'd do it again either. Ever. I know it's hard (our horror story is one for the books too), and really hard to see the end ... but every single time I get sweet kisses, I am so thankful we kept doing that @#%$)$$@#$$$$ (hehe, lots of $$$) paperwork.
BTW, our little gal has that doll. She had no interest at all for the longest time, we didn't take it with us to China. It just sat on a shelf in her room for the loooongest time. One day, out of the blue she saw it and asked for it (she was about 18-20 months old). Now Mei Mei (as we call her) is part of our every day life. Naps, bedtime, trips, doctors visits, out to lunch with daddy ... you name it, Mei Mei is part of our family.
Another btw, I've been looking for a high chair like that forEVER. Love it! :)
Cheers,
Kiy
At least you got an apology!!! It means a tiny little something right?
I LOVE the wood chest. It's WAY better than the colorful plastic ones and you're right--those things last forever!
Another big hug from Canada!!!! **HUGS**
Sigh....adoption is so tiring. BUT once you get that sweet girl in your arms all of this will go away...
I wish I could come over, give you a hug & take you out for a bubble tea. Girl, the paper chase is ruthless.
I love the wooden trunk that you guys got for Shauna. It's such a treasure that she'll have forever.
I've taken a break from all the "life" books that I generally read & have allowed myself nothing but fiction for July & August. Thus, I devoured Snow Flower & the Secret Fan. It was like chocolate cake without the calories. The perfect treat. Thanks girl.
I really like the toy box.
I know you have heard this and may not want to hear it but it is so true....it will all be worthwhile once that baby is in your arms...and everything will seem so less important and almost forgotten once you are there.
I hope you can put all that paperwork behind you soon, and know that we are all here rooting for you and waiting to rejoice with you when it is finally your turn! ((hugs))
getting so close though!!!!! I think I'll celebrate as loud as you when you get that referral! :)
BTW, Katie LOVES that doll. She didn't care too much for it at first, but in the last 6+ months she has fallen in love with her.
took Emily a long time, but now she loves her dolls.....at first, she wanted nothing to do with them...so if Shauna pitches it, better hang on to it....:)
We have that doll. I think it's cute but my kids could really care less about it. I thought they'd appreciate dolls that look like they do but they don't seem to notice the differences. Refreshing, huh! Wouldn't it be nice if they never had to notice the differences?
The paperwork and waiting is brutal. I have such respect for all my friends who are still waiting to bring their sweet baby home.
Donna
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